Thursday, December 31, 2015

This one....

I think this is extremely deep. There's this person and he makes you feel that you are one of the most important people in his life. When he talks to you its like there's nothing else for him other than you. You are his total priority. Your life, your decisions, the direction you're headed in--he has a concern for everything. The love between you and him is absolutely pure. And the funny thing are not the only one who feels so...each and everyone of your friends, elders and kids around also share the same feeling. Everyone feels as if they are most important in his life. They love and adore him as much as he does for them.

How did he manage it? There's nobody I know who's capable of this.
Most of my memories of him are extremely pleasant and beautiful. Some memories are saddening. Every occasion spent with him, there would be an anecdote, a story, something to chew on. Once we were sitting, waiting for the tea which was stewing in the kitchen and he said, 'Only once...I lost faith in the Rishis...and I wept loudly, in utter helplessness and fear.' And he narrated what happened...and it was a poignant incident. Every detail of what he said then comes up from memory in my moments of despair and anguish. And they give strength--that story of total helplessness lends strength. The memory of his pain and subsequent triumph gives you hope and courage.
Difficult to believe that its been three years since his departure. Wondering how it would be if he had still been there...or better, if he had still been the same person that we knew long ago. With his powerful, compassionate, loving physical presence, how would've we been? How would that timeline look like?

Wish I could connect more with him...then...and now.


  1. So sad that this special person is no longer in your life. I would so love to be a person like that. To make sure others feel important and cherished. Maybe that is a resolution I need to work on in the new year?

    1. Yes tabor, He was special...and he was effortless in his compassion and love

  2. Tabor, wow ! What a resolution !
    He is no more but still one can find him in us somewhere! He was a person to whom we felt so open , so genuine,so real, there is so much to grow to become this flow of love and compassion!
    Loved this post and he made us feel adored time and again!
    What a blessing it was to be with him!!
    May you receive abundant gifts from higher beings always!

    Many memories flow!